Lady Thatcher in quotes

Here is a selection of Margaret Thatcher's. What is the right way to complete the quotes?

1. "To be / Being powerful is like being a lady. If you have to tell people you are, you aren't."
2.  "In politics, if you want anything said, ask a man. If you want anything done / made, ask a woman."
3. "Don't follow the crowd, let the crowd follow / to follow you."
4. "I am extraordinarily patient, provided I get my own way in the end / at the end."
5. "Standing in the middle of the road is very dangerous; you get knocked down by / for the traffic from both sides."
6. "If my critics would see / saw me walking over the Thames, they would say it was because I couldn't swim."
7. "I always cheer up immensely if an attack is particularly wounding because I think, well, if they attack one personally, it means they have not a single political argument / discussion left."
8. "If you just set out to be liked, you would be prepared to compromise on anything at any time / everything at everytime, and you would achieve nothing."
9. "To these / those waiting with bated breath for that favourite media catchphrase, the U-turn, I have only one thing to say: You turn if you want to. The lady’s not for turning."
10. "They are casting their problems at society. And, you know, there's no such thing as / like society. There are individual men and women and there are families. And no government can do anything except through people, and people must look after themselves first. It is our duty to look after ourselves and then, also, to look after our neighbours."